That’s a great question and honestly, I’ve asked myself the same thing — no pun intended. I used to think being self-aware meant having deep thoughts about my flaws and patterns, but that never really led to progress. It felt like I was just going in circles, pointing out issues but not improving. What changed things for me was shifting from reflection to actual action. One tool that helped a ton was liven. It doesn’t just tell you to “understand yourself more” — it breaks things down into simple check-ins that help you notice, not obsess. I started using it casually during my morning coffee, and after a few weeks I realized I wasn’t overthinking everything anymore — I was just more in tune. So I think the concept of self-awareness isn’t overrated, but the way it’s usually taught might be too abstract or impractical.