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How Coloring Pages Changed Our Family Nights
I was so tired of seeing my kids stuck to their screens every night. Work kept me busy, the house was always messy, and family time? Gone. Then I found something that worked. Coloring pages. Not the boring kind - fun ones that got us talking. I found Color page free Journey online last year, and now our evenings look totally different. Screens Were Taking Over Let's be honest - kids these days love their tablets and phones. Mine sure did. Studies say kids now look at screens for about 6 hours each day. That's crazy. Our house probably looked like yours: Kids jumping between games and videos Me saying "put that down" a hundred times Bedtime fights every single night Everyone grumpy and tired My friend Sarah told me at school pickup, "I felt like screens were stealing my kids from me." That hit home. I went to a parent meeting where Dr. Foster talked about kids and screens. She said, "When kids color with their hands, their brains calm down. They need a break from all that screen excitement." Check My Source: https://my.clickthecity.com/journeyofficial What We Did That Worked I'm not good at crafts. At all. But this was easy: I printed some free pages (castles, animals - whatever the kids like) Found our old crayons in a drawer Put some music on Set a timer for 15 minutes Sat down together - no phones allowed First night? Not great. My son lasted about 7 minutes. But we tried again. By the third time, something changed. The kids stayed longer. We started talking. The fighting stopped. My friend who works with families says, "Doing something over and over creates connection. Just show up and be there." Three Pages We Really Liked A Dragon by a Castle My quiet son picked a dragon picture. He looked at it for a while, then said, "Maybe the dragon is nice. Maybe he's helping the castle people." Just like that, I got to hear what he was thinking. We talked about not judging others too fast while we colored. Pretty cool for a free sheet of paper! A Castle With Swans My daughter picked a castle with swans swimming around it. "They're like us," she said while coloring the water blue. "A family that stays together." She put that picture next to her bed. It's still there months later. A Puppy With Cakes This one made everyone laugh - a puppy with a bunch of cakes. The kids argued about which cake was best and if dogs can eat chocolate. We ended up baking cookies that same night. Questions Other Parents Ask Me When I tell friends about our coloring time, they always ask: "Can little kids do this?" Yes! Even 3-year-olds can color simple pictures. As kids get older, they can try harder ones. "I can't draw. Does that matter?" Nope! I can't draw either. That's why we use pages someone else drew. You just color with your kids. They don't care if you're good at it. "My older kid loves screens. Will this work?" Start with what they like. My nephew only tried it when his mom found superhero pages. For older kids, try cooler designs. Just make it feel like their choice. What Other Families Say My mom friend Emma told me, "My 5-year-old now asks for coloring time before bed. Her teacher says she pays attention better at school too." Mark, a teacher at our school, uses coloring with his class twice a week. He says, "The kids talk more about their day when their hands are busy." Hiro moved here from Japan last year. He told me, "In my country, we believe simple things bring peace. When my son colors, I ask about his color choices, and he opens up about everything." Some UK study from last year found that families who do stuff without screens talk 37% better with each other. Makes sense to me! Good Things That Happened We started coloring just to get off screens, but we got way more: Kids sleep better: They fall asleep faster on coloring nights More creative thinking: My son makes up stories about the pictures Better focus: My daughter's teacher said she pays attention longer now Real talks: No more "How was school?" "Fine." dead ends As that Harvard doctor explained, kids talk more when they don't feel put on the spot. Try This at Your House Tonight Want to do this too? Here's how: Find some Free coloring page online Get basic stuff: Regular paper Crayons or pencils A clean spot at your table 15 minutes when you won't be busy Keep it simple: It's about being together, not making perfect art Everyone colors, even parents Let kids color however they want Make it fun: Call it your "coloring club" Maybe have a snack Put the pictures on your fridge My friend who helps families says, "Keep it so simple you'll actually do it more than once." One Year Later What started as a way to cut screen time is now our favorite family thing. We color every Friday night. Sometimes we make up stories about our pictures. Sometimes grandma joins on video chat. My kids keep their pictures in folders. But the best part? All the talks we've had that never would have happened. My daughter's friend Tyler said it best: "Coloring is when grown-ups learn to play again and kids remember how to talk." Start small. Keep it easy. See what happens. ColoringPagesJourney has good pages when you need new ideas, but any Coloring pages free work fine. The magic isn't the paper--it's sitting at the table together. Worth turning the TV off for an hour? I think so. Useful Link: Easy Coloring Activities for Children and FamilyForums
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